sex an essence of life

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Dear readers,

In my last blog I had written about 'sex a need, of life'... , and in the series of the Topic to  "sex" in this blog i will inlight the essence of sex in life.

As sex is the identity symbol based upon the sex organ. And this sex organs are also known as reproductive organs.

Sex for reproduction

Yes, the sex organ is also for reproduction. But reproduction only can be done with the help of  some sexual activity

• Sexual Activity

Sex is a completely a natural and normal activity – meant to be an intimate act, whether it is self-pleasuring or masturbation, or shared with someone you trust.

Becoming sexually active with a partner is a deeply personal decision that may be influenced by your family values or by what your friends are doing or what you see online or on TV. But only you know if and when you are ready for sex. When you are ready, sexual activity should be pleasurable for both you and your partner.

It is important to learn as much as you can and to protect yourself from unwanted surprises. And even if you’ve been sexually active for many years, there’s always more to learn

• Touching
• Touching becomes a sexual activity if it involves touching or fondling the breasts, buttocks, anus, or genitals of another person. Touching yourself in any of these ways to arouse sexual feelings is called masturbation.
• Kissing

Small kisses on the cheek or hand and even pecks on the mouth may be normal to exchange between family and friends, and are not usually considered sexual. But longer kissing on the mouth and other intimate parts of the body, including the neck, chest, abdomen, and genitals is considered sexual activity.

• Masturbation

For many people, their first sexual activity is masturbation. This involves touching yourself through stimulation of your breasts, buttocks, anus, or genitals. Sex toys are sometimes used to enhance masturbation.

Masturbation is a good way to learn about what kind of touching you enjoy. Masturbation is a normal activity that people may do alone or with a partner.

Some people masturbate every day, some people masturbate occasionally, and some people never masturbate. There is no wrong way to masturbate unless you feel that it is interfering with your daily life.

There are a few things to keep in mind to make masturbation safer. Avoid putting fragile, sharp, unclean, or excessively large objects into a vagina or anus because they can cause tearing or infection. Any sex toys that are used during masturbation should be kept clean.

• Sexual intercourse

Sexual intercourse is the penetration of a penis into the vagina, also known as “vaginal sex” or “sex”. Fingers or sex toys can also be used to penetrate the vagina for sexual pleasure.

There are many different positions that couples can choose for intercourse. The act of sexual intercourse often, but not always, results in orgasm for males and females, and ejaculation for males. By enjoying foreplay first, so that you are both ready for intercourse, the chances are good that you will find it more pleasurable.

It is important to use dual protection when having sexual intercourse; condoms to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections and birth control if you are trying to prevent pregnancy.

Cybersex and phone sex

Cybersex and phone sex involve talking about sex over the phone or by text, sending naked or telephotos, or watching someone touch themselves over online video chat.

These types of exchanges don’t involve physically touching the other person, so they don’t pose a risk of contracting an STI or getting pregnant.

However, there are risks involved, and it is important to be careful when you exchange images and information over the internet.

Oral sex

Using your mouth or tongue to stimulate another person’s genitals is considered sex.

Heterosexual oral sex does not directly lead to pregnancy, but it could happen if any semen gets into the vagina, so it’s best to always use protection.

Oral sex does pose a risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections.

Anal sex

Anal sex involves penetration of the penis into the anus.

Anal sexual activity can also involve using the fingers or sex toys to penetrate the anus for sexual pleasure. 

Some people find anal sex very pleasurable, and some people do not enjoy it, maybe even finding it to be very painful. It’s important to communicate to your partner whether you feel comfortable with anal sex or not.

Heterosexual anal sex does not directly lead to pregnancy,. so it’s best to always use protection.

Anal sex does pose more risks because it can be easier to contract disease. A condom should always be used, with plenty of water-based lubricant. Many sexually transmitted infections can also be transmitted through anal sex. The risk can be decreased if you use condoms.

It’s best to clean the penis or sex toy afterwards to not spread the bacteria to other areas that could cause infection.

Are you ready to have sex?

Becoming sexually active is a deeply personal decision. Only you can decide if and when you are ready for sex.

You will want to be sure that you have all the information you need about sex, including how to be safe, how to avoid getting a sexually transmitted infection, and how to choose a birth control option. This website is meant to help you answer those questions. The first time – and every time – you are thinking of having sex, you should consider why you are doing it. Make sure it’s for your own reasons and not because of pressure from your partner, your friends, or others – or because of what you’ve seen online or in the media.

Pressure to have sex – and pressure to wait – comes from everywhere. In the end it’s your decision and the best way you can decide is to get all the information you need and then consider both the benefits and the consequences.

You need to feel comfortable about your decision – to go ahead or to wait.

Once you’ve made your decision, you need to let your partner do the same – and be respectful of their decision, whether it’s the same as yours or not. This means that you can also change your mind if all of a sudden you thought you felt comfortable and don’t anymore.

Forcing someone to have sex when they’ve said no is a crime. Read more in the section on Sexual Assault.

Sex should be a pleasure for both of you, and it is no pleasure if it is not what you want, whether it is your first time – or any time. Make sure you have the information you need to be safe.

• Sexual Attraction

Sexual attraction is that feeling you get when you like someone, want to be with them, and feel aroused thinking about the

Sexual attraction is different for everyone. What one person finds attractive, another person might not.

Attraction can be based on many things: physical appearance, a person’s voice, or smell, what clothes they wear, what culture they’re from, their personality, charm, politeness – the list goes on.

Humans are diverse in terms of their sexual likes and dislikes. Sexual diversity is something that should be celebrated.

Throughout life, you will begin to recognize what you find attractive and what your sexual likes are, and you may also notice that these likes may change or develop over time.

Sexual orientation can be used to categorize different types of sexual attraction based on a person’s sex. 

                         Sexual Arousal & Orgasms

What happens to our bodies when we get turned o6n sexually?

Answering this question is important for several reasons. First, it’s always a good idea to have an understanding of how your own body works. That way, you can be comfortable with the way your body responds as you get sexually excited.  

• Sexual Arousal

Having a basic understanding of your own body’s sexual response and your partner’s sexual response is an important building block for building a satisfying sexual relationship together. Sexual desire happens during or in anticipation of sexual activity. Sexual arousal can be influenced by the brain, by touching, or by the body’s hormones.

Sexual arousal usually begins in the brain (sometimes called the body’s largest sexual organ). That is, your brain responds to a thought or image, or having a feeling of closeness or affection toward a partner, or the touch of a partner, by sending signals to the rest of your body, especially the genital area.

The sources of sexual arousal are different for everyone; seeing someone they find attractive, like a partner or someone they find appealing, specific body parts, activities, or objects they find appealing, fantasizing about people or activities – the list goes on.

Physiological responses to sexual arousal include – most obviously – an erection for males and swelling of the nipples, vulva and clitoris, and vaginal lubrication for females. For both males and females, the heartbeat quickens, blood pressure increases, and breathing becomes more rapid. Sexual arousal reaches its climax during an orgasm.

How quickly we become aroused and have an orgasm can also change depending on a wide range of factors, including how relaxed or stressed-out we are, whether we are tired or feeling well-rested, whether we have drunk a lot of alcohol or smoked cigarettes, and, probably most importantly, whether we are feeling positively or negatively towards our partner and whether we feel trust.

On average, the time it takes to become aroused and have an orgasm is shorter for males than it is for females. This is important to know because it means that in a relationship between a male and a female, the male may need to slow himself down and not expect that his female partner will become sexually aroused as quickly as he does.

Sexual arousal can also happen without knowing it. It is common to have dreams with sexually arousing images or scenarios, which can cause the same physiological responses of sexual arousal, and ejaculation (called a wet dream).

Some people can be aroused by the idea of holding more power over the other person (domination) or by allowing another person to hold more power over them (submission). Allowing submission during sex can put a person in a vulnerable situation, potentially putting their safety at risk (Consent). This type of arousal needs to be done with mutual consent – where both people feel safe and comfortable. Be very sure it is your choice.

Second, while no two people are exactly the same in the way they respond sexually, knowing what happens to the male and female body during the process of sexual arousal and orgasm will give you some idea of how a sexual partner’s body may respond when he or she is sexually excite

• Orgasms